Boyfriends myspace says single?

He doesnt check it often...we're in an ldr, someone set up the account for him, he said he doesnt know how to change it. We just got into a HUGE fight about it over email...we always seem to fight over this issue...so you'd think he'd just change it? He'll say, next time i log on, i'll change it. He claims to love me, want to marry me...there doenst seem to be much action going on there with it...but still. We just had a big fight over it, he said he's sick of having the convo, i nag him over the dumbest crap...should i let it go?

Boyfriends myspace says single?

If he didn't know how to change it then how did he choose the option of single? That is the stupidest lie i've ever heard. Think about it, even if he makes it not sound as serious it is, this is the first step of cheating. Seems like he's looking online for something "better" this is a sad psychological matter, he either wants you to be jealous, or make you think your not good enough for him. By putting himself, available he is actually saying your not good enough.

Don't ever settle for that, he obviously isn't taking the relationship serious, you should stand up for yourself, don't let anyone walk on you like that. I know it's easy to say and breaking up is horrible, but what would you rather have? spend the rest of your life insecure, and afraid that someday someone on myspace will take him. Or move on, and know that you don't diserve to make yourself suffer like that.

If he really loves you:

Then you could allow him to have friends, and tell him to put you on his myspace friends. Once you do that, you can post messages of "I love you glitters" or write anything that lets everyone know he's taken. If he loves you, ask him to let everyone know he's not single. That is the only way to find out what he's true feelings are, when you love someone, your not ashamed of telling the world you love them. In fact you want to shout to the world you love them.

Good luck, and i hope it works out, if not, it will work out anyways, a broken heart always remembers how it was broken. To learn and gain strength from those scars.

Update:

*** If it's family and people, you shouldn't then be afraid, but if you doubt him, or his faithfullness, then you should put single on your profile. You said he doesn't know how to change it?***

Ok Here is how to change it:

1) Log on to myspace

2) Go to Edit profile on your right side next to your picture

3) On your upper tab go to Background %26amp; lifestyle

4) Once your in background and lifestyle it's the first option. Check the option that says maritial status. And check In a relationship

And that's it! now he will be able to put on his profile that his on a relationship.

Good luck! hoping you guys work it out!

Boyfriends myspace says single?

if hes sorry no but if he keeps acting like an *** then let the mother ****** go (sorry about the language)

Boyfriends myspace says single?

You should definitely let it go. Of course if it's that big of a deal maybe you can get his password (since you both know/trust each other anyways) and change it yourself, but it really doesn't matter because what you two share is special. You don't have to advertise it online for it to be meaningful! It's just a stupid gimmick that myspace uses...i personally never pay attention to it when looking @ other profiles anyways! =)

Boyfriends myspace says single?

That's up to you, but I think he is playing games I mean why would he not change it.....

Boyfriends myspace says single?

I think you know your answer. The web, while very diverse, is not that hard to use. Sites such as MySpace are really really really..... really... really simple to use. If a person cannot change their settings they are either lying or just too damn stupid to be part of the human gene pool.

That being said, your comments seem to imply an attachment that might be aggressive compared to his responses. I would encourage examining your attachment to a "LDR". The issues of trust and intimacy just cannot come easily. And someone too stupid to be able to log on and change a MySpace setting is PROBABLY playing the field. Such a person is not at the same commitment level you might be feeling.

Good luck... you will either get a great response from "him" or find out he really is too stupid to use a computer... blender... butter knife... microwave popcorn bag.... etc.

I am guessing that he can microwave popcorn and is just keeping his options open.

Boyfriends myspace says single?

i know what you mean. i was in a similar situtation not too long ago. my boyfriend actually ended up deleting his myspace after the fight. but, you need to realize that i went through the set up and it defaults to single. I'd keep an eye on his last login date, if there is activity on his myspace he definitely should change it to single. if there isn't i'd let it go. but keep an eye on it. for sure.

Boyfriends myspace says single?

He isn't married? (To you or anyone else?)

Then he's single.

Are you even "officially" engaged?

Lord have mercy.

On both of you, if you do get hitched.

Sorry, but this question doesn't belong in this category.

Boyfriends myspace says single?

i have tons of friends who have bfs who dont change it.. so its really not a big deal..especially because he is never online...

Boyfriends myspace says single?

honestly i havent changed mine since opened account years ago. instead of being worried about his status im worried about ur insecurities.. btw i control couple of friends myspace pages as they neither the desire or know how to change it. when they want sumething done they let me know and i do it when i have time. the relationship status has never came up nor do i figure it ever will. personal i think ur insecure and need to worry bout ur own issues more then his myspace page. i mean come on its myspace geesh